My husband is a SAHD of our twin girls. After 6 months, he still doesn't have things down. Please understand that I think he is a great father and has always been wonderful with kids. I know that it is so much harder with twins then it is with a single, but everyday is misarable for him. While on maternity leave I was the one who took care of the girls. Then When I went back to work he became a SAHD. I constantly tried to get him aquainted to their schedules but he never took it seriously until I was already back at work. After 3 months I still get daily call/texts of what to do.

OK. Now  I don't want to intrude on the forum, but I really need the advice of some SAHDs to help give me perspective on my problem.

My wife and I have had a relationship for 15 years now, but there has always been one underlying issue in our relationship that seems to cause the most friction: sex. During the first 10 years, things seemed to be fine. Sex was very frequent (maybe two to three times a week), but about 7 years ago things changed. My wife and I are high school sweethearts, and we went to college together. During these years, I would say that my sex life with her was great, but during the last year of college things changed.

My wonderful husband is a SAHD to our three-year old. We haven't been intimate since our child was conceived. When I ask (not in a nagging, pressuring way), he tells me that being around our child all day shuts off his libido. Then he doesn't want to talk about it after that.

Wondering if any of the at home dads know of the procedure so as to not have more children.  Know that a local anesthetic can be used and it can be over in fifteen minutes. Any complications, instructions. And, how is life after it's done.  Has the romancing side of life shown any kind of dramatic improvement?