Death or divorce?
Just wondering may be a little morbid it seems everyone here seems to still be with there wives. I do believe it would be easier to handle if i was given death not divorce.
I think it is more or less like her being dead to me and the kids because she is never around she spends more time on the phone and out with her friends. Today will be the first day she would have had them this week and she is trying to drop them off tonight instead of tomorrow and now she decided to go out for the afternoon and left the kids with her mother. How do you explain to a kid your mom does not want to play with you or she has to go out shopping instead, let alone the other guy.
To me saying mommy is dead and you will see her in heaven seems so much easier.
She takes the kids on average no more then 2 days every other weekend in which she raises them with her mother at her mothers house and one or two nights during the week every once in awhile.
For my compensation for the past nine weeeks has been 400 dollars.
I have had to consider daycare because of this and that kills me.
One last question has anyone had any success with working from home I am looking for just enough to get my own apartment and and provide for the kids I do not have an extravagant life style and budget very well.
Joined: 2008-08-19
Dad Points: 13